Meet Your Therapist

Adrian Cufley

MBA
Doctoral Student
Relationship & Intimacy Specialist

Therapeutic Specialties

Betrayal Trauma

Couple or Marriage Therapy

Couples Communication

Couples Conflict

Infertility

Infidelity

Family Therapy

Sex Therapy

Low Sexual Desire

Sexual Shame

Individual Therapy

Anxiety

Chronic Pain

Depression

Grief & Loss

Substance Use & Addiction

Suicidal Thoughts and Behaviors

Trauma & PTSD

Specific Populations

Adults

Chronic Health Concerns

Veterans

Law Enforcement

First Responder

Adrian approaches therapy from a collaborative, trauma informed, and non-judgemental perspective. She is committed to helping clients build meaningful, connected lives and recognizes that challenges such as anxiety, depression, and trauma often impact both internal experiences and relationships.

Her clinical work integrates evidence-based approaches, including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), to support clients in developing emotional awareness, flexibility, and resilience. She works with individuals to build practical skills for navigating intense emotions, reducing suffering, and moving toward what matters most to them. She strives to create a space where clients feel both supported and empowered to make meaningful change.

Adrian has a strong interest in trauma and the ways it shapes emotional and relationship experiences overtime. She is particularly drawn to working with individuals who feel overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected, and she aims to help clients better understand their patterns while fostering a renewed sense of safety and self-trust.

When working with couples, she draws from the Gottman Method to support partners in improving communication, rebuilding trust, and strengthening emotional connection. She enjoys helping couples navigate difficult conversations, repair after conflict, and deepen their understanding of one another’s needs.

She is committed to providing an inclusive, affirming space for individuals of all identities and backgrounds and approaches her work with curiosity, respect, and compassion.

Education & Credentials
  • Doctor of Philosophy (PhD) in Clinical Psychology (in progress), Seattle Pacific University
  • Master of Business Administration, City University of Seattle
  • Bachelor of Science in Psychology, Pacific Lutheran University
About Adrian

Adrian is a parent of two energetic young children who keep her grounded and constantly learning. She has been with her spouse for over a decade, who currently serves in both law enforcement and the Army, shaping her appreciation of the resilience and complexity of military and first responder families. Her personal experience with infertility and pregnancy loss have deepened her compassion and understanding to the quieter, often unseen challenges people carry.

Outside of her clinical work, Adrian enjoys spending time outdoors camping with her family, traveling, and staying active. A former ballroom dance instructor, she still enjoys dancing whenever she gets the chance.